Praise the Lord!!! FINALLY we have heard those words we have been longing to hear! The judge has given us written judgement! We still have 30 days to wait before we can shout to the world that "J" is legally our son but we are one big step closer! The 30 days is there to give any family members the chance to step forward and request custody of him. However, we have been informed that this is very unlikely especially in "J's" case as he was abandoned at birth and there are no known relatives. Iv'e always wondered why this step isnt taken before judgement, but it is what it is and we are thrilled that we are one huge step closer to bringing home our son!